19 March 2010

♥can u change a man?♥

江山易改,本性难移


无论你再怎么强逼,
他始终是他。

或许你可能自欺欺人;
以为,
看不到就代表没有。
但是,
这样会比较开心吗?
最后,
知道了恍然大悟了,
受伤的是自己。

不要再执意要他为你而改变了!

如果他真的改了,
那就不是本来的他;
那个,你最初爱上的他。




想和你永远在一起的念头,
一直还在。
但是,
恐怕必须暂时摆在一边了。

握得太紧
只会让你想松开我的手

如果真的是爱
你会愿意改变



就等那一天的到来吧~

2 comments:

Molly & Law said...

i doubt it. i feel (from my experience, aisheh got experience some more lor hehehehe *blush*) i feel that if he doesn't want to change, then you cannot change him.

unless he finally realize that change for him is for the best for both of you, then he will really change.

one thing good about men is, if they really wanna change for the best, they will put in 100% effort, maybe even more, to change themselves. until they are the best. ego problem i guess. hahaha..

that's why women can count on them. when you found a guy that would change for you, and also for the best, NEVER LET GO OF HIM. ^^

hehehehehe.. :) i am slowly trying to change myself (for the better) after seeing what changes he has made! :)

juleneooi said...

ur last sentence is so sweet, how i wish my bf can do da same as u...
i got no idea, as from now i cant see any significant change la, perhaps i m too impatient and he's kinda everything-in-slow-pace person..
WAT TO DO... shall/have to give some time.. wish me luck...